I love the natural hair community but we seriously need to stop bashing women that still relax and use heat on their hair regularly. Going natural is hard and it takes a strong confident woman to do it. Going natural isnt just a 1 day process or a complete 360 turn around after watching a youtube video, and we can all cosign to that. As a group we must understand that this is a process, this problem is a result of generations of negative molding.  Be careful with your words naturalistas.